Marriage is a beautiful thing but includes a lot of work. It particularly involves managing your relationship with your spouse and their family. One significant relationship that must be well managed is that with your spouse.
This may not always go as we expect especially when one is verbally abusive, and we know that words have either a wonderful or horrible effect on the person spoken to especially in a love relationship like marriage. This situation must be well managed to prevent issues.
So, when you have a verbally abusive husband, you must pay attention to what triggers his anger and avoid it as much as possible. While that is the physical way to manage the situation, you can also address this spiritually with prayers. The Spiritual way of addressing it is great way to stop the verbal abuse. A combination of avoiding his triggers and praying for him is wisdom in application. We shall be raising prayer points to use to get a verbally abusive husband to stop.
Powerful Prayer Points to Stop an Angry Verbally Abusive Husband
- Father, I pray that you reach out to my husband and show him who he is. Not until you show prophet Isaiah who he was, he didn’t come to the knowledge of his flaws, therefore Lord please reach out to my husband and show him himself that he may come back for the cleansing of his mouth.
- Father, I pray for total deliverance of my husband from lasciviousness of his mouth in the name of Jesus. Everything in him that renders him into this state is evicted in the name of Jesus. Let there be total deliverance without leaving any traces behind in the name of Jesus.
- Father, let every spirit of anger behind this verbal abuse perpetrated by my husband be evicted out of him in the name of Jesus. Anger is not part of you oh Lord, therefore it is evicted in the name of Jesus. In as much as I and my husband are one, I stand on these covenants to send out the spirit of anger in the name of Jesus.
- Father, I pray that every fleshly desire to abuse people and talk inappropriately is hereby silenced in the name of Jesus. All of the operations of the flesh requiring him to talk indecently and abuse people are hereby made of no effect to him in the name of Jesus.
- Lord Jesus, let your power of consecration reach out to him so that he may learn to consecrate his mouth in the name of Jesus. Lord, please reach out to him by your power for consecration in the name of Jesus. Let his whole body be consecrated especially his mouth in the name of Jesus.
- Lord, your word says he that keeps his mouth keeps his life, please help my husband to keep his life by keeping his mouth in the name of Jesus. My Lord and Savior, let not his mouth put him into trouble or destroy our home in the name of Jesus. That as he interact with others outside, please guide him so that he would not destroy things with his mouth in the name of Jesus.
- Father, I ask for revelation that I may know the triggers and causes of the angers that makes my husband become verbally abusive in the name of Jesus. Help me with the revelation in the name of Jesus. Father, please furnish me with all I need to know about this in the name of Jesus. Help me to understand all the causes in the name of Jesus.
- Father, I ask for wisdom to take the right steps whenever my husband acts angrily and become verbally abusive in the name of Jesus. Father, help me with wisdom in the name of Jesus that I can help my husband be a bad person in the name of Jesus. Help me with wisdom to help that my husband may become better in the name of Jesus.
- Lord, let him by himself find steps to take to help himself drop off the anger and abusive words in the name of Jesus. Please help him to see himself and what to do become better in the name of Jesus. Until he is ready to become better, he may not get out of this Lord. Please help him to drag himself out of this path in the name of Jesus.
- Father, I ask that you equip my husband with wisdom so that he would know how to use words in ways that will not break our home in the name of Jesus. Help him to come to the knowledge of the power in words, the damage it can do and how he can avoid being verbally abusive in the name of Jesus.
- Father, if this is caused by generational issues in my husband lineage, please arise and settle this in the name of Jesus. The man has crossed into your family oh Lord, therefore whatever affected his predecessors should not affect him in the name of Jesus. Stretch forth your great hand of power and save him from anger and verbal abusive in the name of Jesus.
- Father, I pray for my husband that all the emotional pain that may have sponsored the lifestyle of anger and abusive words in my husband be healed in the name of Jesus. Let there be emotional healing for my husband in the name of Jesus that he will turn out to be loving and caring with words of grace from his mouth in the name of Jesus.
- Father, I pray that you heal me from all forms of emotional wounds I have received from his abusive words in the name of Jesus. Let the healing be mutual so that we can start afresh in new life in you my master and friend. Please heal me totally and save me from all resentment that his previous behavior may have brought in the name of Jesus.
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With these prayers, you would be able to pray and secure the healing of both your husband and yourself. More importantly, you would be partnering with God to give your husband a new life. So, pray the prayers with a heart that is ready to hear from God for directions and to see changes in your husband.